The Loop
One of you tracks. One of you avoids.
The tracker feels controlling. The avoider feels judged. Neither of you is wrong. You just never agreed on a system.
For Expat Couples in Germany
You're not bad with money. You just never learned to talk about it.
Coaching for expat couples in Germany. Three sessions. In English. Built for the way you actually live.
Book Your Free 30-Min Discovery Call →No pitch. No pressure. Just a conversation.
You know the pattern.
Most expat couples fall into one of these loops. Not because they're broken. Because nobody handed them a script.
The Loop
You still don't know each other's numbers.
You've been together for years, live in the same apartment, and neither of you could say what the other one actually earns.
The Loop
The "when we go home" conversation.
Home is somewhere else. And every year you don't decide, you decide.
How It Works
Three sessions. One week apart. In English. Both of you in the room.
1
Understand
What each of you brings to money, and why the same fights keep happening.
2
Design
A shared plan built around what you value, in the numbers you actually have.
3
Sustain
A monthly practice that keeps the plan honest without keeping me in the room.
I've had every one of these conversations.
I've been an expat for over a decade. In that time I've navigated money across cultures, currencies, relationships, and countries, and become obsessed with the frameworks that actually work for couples like ours.
I'm not a licensed financial advisor. I'm not a therapist. I coach couples because the fight isn't really about the money. It's about being heard. That part, I can help with.
What clients say
Founding client testimonials coming soon.
What it costs
RECOMMENDED
Foundations Package
€300€450
Founding Client rate
- 3 × 60-min sessions, one week apart
- Full arc: Understand, Design, Sustain
- Session recap emails
- Money Meeting toolkit
- 4-week email follow-up
Single Session
€120
For couples who want a taste first
- 1 × 60-min session
- Credited toward the Foundations Package if you continue
- No commitment
Questions couples ask
How is this different from couples therapy?
Therapy works on the emotional dynamic. This works on the money conversation and the habits around it. There is overlap, but if you're in acute relationship crisis you want to see a therapist first and foremost.
What happens on the discovery call?
Thirty minutes on Google Meet. You tell me what's going on with money between the two of you. I ask a few questions. I tell you honestly whether this is a fit.
Are you a financial advisor?
No. I coach the conversation between the two of you and help you build healthy habits around money.
Is this therapy?
No. If a session surfaces something deeper, I'll flag it for you to follow up on outside of this meeting.
Is my information confidential?
Yes. Anything shared in a session stays between the three of us. I don't share client details with anyone, and testimonials only go up with explicit written permission.
Does one partner have to be sold on this?
Both partners need to attend. If one is skeptical, that's normal. We'll address it in the discovery call.
What if we're not in Germany?
The method works anywhere. It's just built with expat couples in Germany in mind.
Do you speak German?
Yes, but sessions are exclusively in English. That's the point.